I love having fun just as much as I love curling up in bed with a good book and good music pretending that the world outside does not exist. And sometimes I do love a good loving from someone who understands, cares, loves, pleasures and spoils me (surely thats not too much to ask for).
But in as much as my world is perfect when Im alone and around those who love me unconditionally, outside, its a battle field.
I have come to realize that its not everyone you call friend who is a friend. People pretend. I know I do pretend too. But when I find that one friend who is true, I will fight their battles for them, wipe their tears away and be a true friend to them too. Its just natural to be a bitch to a bitch right?
Another thing is not every man or boy who comes along proclaiming their undying love and promising you the worlds best means it. Men will say every possible thing to a woman so they can get into their pants, enjoy the ride and then run faster than Usain Bolt's and a kalenjin's offspring can once the commitment/pregnant/marriage word comes along... Cowardice is the word. And wise judgement is encouraged.
Take your time to make decisions. Know what the next step will be after you have gotten where you wanted to get. Life is a ladder, you climb one step at a time to get where u want. Every failure and every success is a step towards your goal as long as when you fall down you dont stay down and once you succeed you dont get swallowed by that success.
Education does matter. Its hard to move on in life without a good education. Some people are lucky to get around this, but not all of us. Invest in a good education when you can.... Even if it doesnt pay off immediately, eventually its fruits will mature and you will be grateful you got it.
Forgiveness is key in life. If you dont forgive a person you will forever be in that persons power. If you forgive someone then you are free to live your life happily and comfortably. Forgive, even if you will never forget.
Family will always be family no matter where you are. Nothing will ever change that. Needless to say, I have learnt that you might have issues with your family but when you need them, they will always be there for you no matter what you did in the past.
A good support system is mandatory. Sorround yourself with a good support system.... Your family for one and your closest friends. ....
Shit happens. Life will fuck you up sometimes.
You have to set the boundaries and know when to say no and mean it. If you don't, people will take advantage because they know you just cant say no or stand your ground.
So you are kind yes? Nobody cares about that.
If you dont have fun while still young, you will not have stories to tell in your old age. Create memories that you will look back at fondly and dont wait until its too late to do things you were supposed to have done in your teens & youth.
Patience pays. But only when the thing you are being patient with or for is worth it. If you are in an abusive relationship, like it or not, patience will not make it better. Walk out of it before it kills you.
Quote: Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.
London / J Mclean
Xoxo.
